Ask yourself 

What is sexuality? a human need? desire? a form of hunger? a hunger for what? for love? for pure attention? is it creation? or destruction? is it physical through the body? is it emotional through the soul? is it both? is it a pleasure? is it a burden? what does it create? joy? pain? what do you use it for? to please yourself? to please others? do you have rules? for your body? for other bodies? who makes the rules? is it you? is it society?

Do you feel well? 

Do you feel well?